The truth of the matter is that the majority of promises that are made to people are routinely broken. This is because promises are the result of our own desire to be loved, to be seen, or to achieve what we want.
The truth of the matter is that people often say they will do something in a written promise, but don’t follow through. And then they get upset that they didn’t follow through. How many times have you heard, “I’m going to clean my room, but I don’t even know where to start.” Of course, the key word in that sentence is “know.” You know because you’ve been cleaning your room for the past year.
This is why promises are such a pain. I love my promises, I give them gladly, but for some reason I feel like I have to go out and make the promises myself. I usually do this in writing, but sometimes I forget. Either way, when I say I’m going to clean my room, I dont even know exactly what I do to make sure I get it done. I just know I dont want to be the one who has to clean it.
The truth is, I have no idea. I feel like I am the only one who can make that promise, but I don’t know why I should. Sometimes I get lazy and just do it automatically. But when I say Im going to make sure I get it done, I have no idea what im going to do with it. I just have to be sure its something important. It’s like every time I say Im going to clean my room I forget.
I’m talking about the standard, all-enforceable promise you make with a legal document like a mortgage contract.
The first thing you have to do is actually spell out exactly what you are going to do. Then you have to be sure you are doing it correctly. You can’t just say, “I’m going to make sure I get this done,” as if you are the only one who can do that. If you’re going to make sure something happens in the future, then you also have to be sure you can actually do it in the future.
I would strongly recommend that you either use a lawyer or a real estate agent to get this signed. The second thing you can do is write it down. The third thing you can do is put in specific dates and times when you will be doing it. If youre going to make it a legal promise, then you also need to be sure that its enforceable. You cant just say Im going to make sure I do this, even if you have a lawyer who can fix it for you.
For instance, if you have a home, your home, and you need to sell it, the seller has to be sure that the buyer has been given the ability to buy the property for a reasonable price. Because if they don’t, it can be an issue if they want to keep the house but don’t have the money to buy it.
I haven’t had the pleasure of working with Varden, so I can’t help you with this one. As a result, if you have any questions about this, I would appreciate it if you could talk to me, but I’m not sure you can give up on this.
I think the ability to buy or sell property is one of the most important things in life. Its one of the most difficult thing to get right. The other most important thing is the ability to transfer property from one person to another.